True
love is not real, unless its return. We just can hope, but God always
decide our way, the best way. When you find someone, and you feel he or
she make your life different perhaps you'll think that he is your true
love because his promises and the sweetest words they ever said.
Unfortunately, your thinking is going false. I have three statements to
define true love itself. First, true love when you get happiness because
of that one, when you have fun you often leave and forget the
kindness, when you down, you back and ask so much request to them, but
they never hate you even to leave you back, yah our love for Allah and
parents. Second, love your self, before you wanna have a someone perfect
in imperfect of you, you have to love your self first so you can choose
who is the best for you. And the last, true love is when you fight to
find someone and you being comfortable stay beside him, your life
brighter because of him, and then you lost him, break your heart, create
your blue life, but he come back into your arms, cheers you up again
because he know that he can't stand being apart with you, and nothing
will be able to make both of you be apart for twice so let live happily
ever after save your love lovely because he's yours completely.
But
don't you know when you decide to love him and give him your heart,
don't forget ! It means that you're ready to miss him, to accept who he
is, to understand him, to get hurt because of him, and ready in one day
to be left by him. Thus, if you have been ready for this it's sure that
you can put yourself right and act yourself better so they can still
love you for who you are and never regret loving you.
In
relationship with someone, we often meet some troubles or somebody
called them "spices in relation." hahaa So, how about your opinion ? I'm
sure that without a little quarrel or debating some topics it will be
boring. We feel tired off, so many couple forced ending their relation
with " We have been not in the way" actually they just feel bored and
tired to go trough the flat relation.
The
other sides 'jealous' always become the horrible knight in relation.
May be you find protective one but the other hand you get the un-caring
one. So accept your couple who they are and once again make yourself
clever to handle them hohoho actually we hope someone who can understand
whoever person does interaction with us, and the urgent is we also have
to know the limitation the way we talk with someone else. It's the
affection.
About
long distance relationship ? hmmm some couples avoid to do it because
they think they can't control their couple, do they have a 'close
friend' there ? -just God and him who know- the other reason is we will
be envy when see the other couple can spending their time together
whereas we couldn't, so it creates desire to have a real boy friend
close to us, but there are several couples enjoy in that relation
because if we keeping on meet our boy every day it will make we feel
bored earlier, yah depend on yourself is better. Although in long
distance they must have more patience to wait a meeting with their boy,
and also have to be stronger when overcome the trouble without talking
directly. zzzz
Well,
spending the time with someone we love is unforgotten, isn't it ? If
you wanna forget it, hmmm impossible, because you aren't crazy person
right ? Every memories makes you feel happy although you often dropping
your tears when remembering about this.
We
talk each other, we laugh freely on some jokes, we go to some places,
we discuss, we do quarrel, we jealous each other, and smile at the phone
when get 'good morning, honey' and wanna get hurry to face tomorrow
when get 'good night'... And so many memories we remember..
Now,
we just can remember, and review. We save all beautiful memories. Every
sheet we know surely, when it happened where and with whom because we
wrote it.
hmmm
if the one has gone, leave you alone, no one can accompany you to
spending your favorite day again, what you will do ? You wait him ? You
do it alone ? Or you try to find new someone ?
But
I think, finding the real yourself first is better. You have to know
you shouldn't give up, you shouldn't look back to your past, but you
should be a new of you for your future, with your best your shine and
your smile they will conquer the one who is great and capable just for
you. If the great and capable one is your past, never ever let it go
because it's yours. But if the great and capable one is new one, just
believe that he is better than your past so pray and ask to God that
it's the best :-)
In
shortening, love is simple but more difficult. You love someone and get
that one loves you too is nice, if they leave you, let it go. If they
come back you shouldn't doubt about this love, if they go away and never
return the love it's not yours, so trust to God you'll find the better
one for your life than your past, never let yourself in sorrow. Life so
beautiful, really wonderful..
